Turning the Courts on their ears… New Divorce Tactics
In a word – DVRO!
Imagine a court process so flawed, so rife with abuse, and so loose in both it’s creation and execution, that virtually anyone can get away with screwing up someones else life for at least 90 days, and in 99% of the cases, for three years, and you pretty much describe the Domestic Violence Restraining Order (DVRO). Filing a Domestic Violence Restraining Order again your ex is tantamount to tossing them under a runaway freight train. And the sad thing about the DVRO is that it is used across America daily in divorce tactics to control your ex.
Today in most counties in California, the family law courts are hearing daily Domestic Violence Restraining Order cases from all walks of life. No one is immune from the broad sweeping powers of the DVRO. Hell, in most jurisdictions they hold classes every day for new filers on how to fill out the documents, file and serve them. A day or two later and all hell breaks loose for the newly restrained person.
Designed to assist an abused or threatened spouse, the DVRO is a FILL IN THE BLANK order. This means you do not need an attorney to file one. And it is free for most litigants as well. So what is the downside? Nothing. In fact, I believe that it is time to promote a national week for the DVRO! “Restrain Your Ex” week, or “Restrain your Parent/Child/Family Member/Close relative/Distant Cousin/Fill in the blank” week… and then everyone across this great Republic can run down to their local court clerk and flood the system with DVRO filings. I am convinced that the only way to stop the abuse by the courts in handing out DVRO’s without any real thought about the consequences to the restrained person(s) is to have everyone in America RESTRAINED. That includes the idiot judges, clerks, law enforcement… EVERYONE! If you want to beat the system, then you have to do so with the laws on the books, and use the system against itself. IF the courts were suddenly overwhelmed with Domestic Violence Restraining Order filings, the legal system might have to reconsider it’s freewheeling ways with the DVRO. One can only hope.
There could be parties and celebrations all week, but of course the restrained family members would not be allowed to attend, so then there would be “Restrained Persons Parties” as well… kind of a caste system for the courts abuse. I can see the protected parties living their lives as normal as they are mentally capable of… but the restrained persons would start to hide out in underground bunkers far from any homes, schools, work locations, cars or other places they are no longer allowed to associate with as ruled in their Domestic Violence Restraining Orders.
And just think… if carefully done, the leftist anti-gun sympathizers could effectively un-arm every legal gun owner in America. The Domestic Violence Restraining Order is the single most powerful tool in the courts for taking control of someone – Physically, Mentally, Emotionally and Spiritually!
Come one Americans – have you filed your DVRO today?
Now go restrain someone…..
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order DVRO upon a complaint being made under the Act s 4 1 if there is a reasonable apprehension that the defendant may commit domestic violence. Although there are no provisions for interim DVROs or for the issue of a DVRO by a person other than a court the SA Act provides for the issuing of DVROs by a court in urgent situations in the absence of the defendant s 9 . A court may grant a restraining order under that Act in broadly similar terms to a DVRO.
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I would like to say that in the course of one article, you have managed to push back years of advocacy and support for true victims of domestic violence. I am saddened by your lack of thought and consideration. It takes abused spouses years to gain enough courage to leave an abusive relationship. If you truly want to “turn the courts on their ears”, then start writing articles on how society is brushing the REAL domestic violence under the rug because “its just not their battle”. Help victims of TRUE abuse regain their lives. Raise awareness about stalking. Help parents keep their children safe from ex’s who can and have done far more damage than they ever should have been allowed to. Raise support for men who are tortured and condemned to a life of cruelty and silence because society isn’t open minded enough to believe that domestic violence has no barriers in regards to sex, income, education, or race. Open you eyes. Look at those around you who suffer again and again because our communities are too busy looking the other way.
Dear Abigail,
Thank you for your reply. I felt I needed to respond as your comments, like mine, seemed one-sided. As a divorce coach, self-help chapter chairman, and court advocate for those dealing with difficult marriages, relationships and divorces, I live daily in the “Real” world of the system. And like it or not, there is corruption from the top down in this $25 BILLION dollar per year American Divorce Industry. Domestic Violence is a sad reality of the HUMAN condition, and has been since the dawn of time. Unfortunately, the legal pendulum has swung back to smack us all in the face with dumbed down solutions that do nothing but create more angry people. Class warfare, in the interest of saving people from themselves. You talk of TRUE abuse, fine… I am all for solutions to stemming the tide of this problem, but too many do-gooders out there, from our elected officials right down to the county social workers who would themselves fail miserably at being a spouse or parent all too often make and enforce useless laws and court decisions that are morally, ethically and socially bankrupt. If the Prison System were run with the same careless approach to sacrificing many to save a few, MILLIONS OF INNOCENT PEOPLE would be in prison right now! That, Abigail, is my point. Nothing more….